劝告和建议
同学之间应该互相关心，因此有时需要提出一些善意的劝告和建议。接受时，别忘了谢谢；拒绝时，也别伤了对方的自尊。
I．Daily Expressions in Communication（日常交际用语）
a．You'd better．．．．你最好……。
You should．．．．你应该……。
You need（to）．．．．你需要……。
b．Shall we．．．？我们……好吗？
Let's．．．．让我们……吧。
What ／How about．．．？……怎么样？
II．Conversations（会话实例）
A
Sam：Mum，it's Sunday tomorrow．Shall we go to the zoo①？
Mother：Oh，no．There's nothing new there．There are only some ugly old animals．
Sam ：But I like animals very much．
Mother：Well，let's go to the park，shall we②？I hear there's a dinosaur show in the park．
Sam ：A dinosaur show ？GREat！I like dinosaurs best of all the anim als．Are they as big as real dinosaurs？Can they roar？
Mother：Yes，I think so．They're electric models．You'll see them yourself tomorrow ．It's getting late．You'd better go to bed now③．
Sam：OK．Wake m e up earlier．Good night，Mum．
Mother：Good night，dear．Sweet dreams！
B
Mary：What fine weather！
Han Yu：Yes，it is，isn't it？
Mary：What about going to Tianchi Park④？I hear the lotuses there have come out．They're very beautiful．
Han Yu：Well，that would be nice．But Tianchi Park is far away from Yibin．Why not go to Cuiping Hill Park⑤？There's a Nezha temple there．It's very famous．
Mary：Good idea．I've never been there before．And it's very near．
Han Yu：It's a little hot today．You need to wear cool clothes⑥．I think you'd better take off your sweater．
Mary：All right．And you'd better not wear your hat．
Han Yu：OK．Shall we take something to eat and drink in the park？
Mary：No，let's buy some in the park．
Han Yu：OK⑦．Let's start off．
C
Wang Tao：Li Bin，we'll have an English exam tomorrow．
Li Bin：Really？How do you know？
Wang Tao：Miss Liu told me a moment ago．
Li Bin：I'm afraid I can't pass the exam．You see，I was ill last week and missed a few lessons．
Wang Tao：Don't worry，Li Bin．I think you should go over all the lessons before the exam⑧．I'm free tonight．I can help you with your English．I'm sure you can pass the exam．
Li Bin：Thank you very much，Wang Tao．It's very nice of you．
D
Tom：I don't feel very well，Mum．
Mother：Oh，dear．What's wrong？
Tom：I've got a terrible headache．
Mother：You'd better take some medicine．
Tom：But I've already taken some．
Mother：Than you'd better go to bed and have a good rest．You'll soon feel better．
E
Father：How are you getting on with your classmates，Mary？
Mary：Not bad．But I had a quarrel with Ann yesterday．
Father：Why？You are always friendly to each other．
Mary：Here's a letter to Ann．I've just written it．Please read it，Dad．Then
you can know the reason．I'd like to have your opinion．
Father：I'd be glad to tell you what I think．
Mary：If there's anything wrong in the letter，please tell me．I don't want to lose her friendship．
Father：Look at the beginning．I think you should write about how you value your friendship．
Mary：You're right．I'll change it．What do you think about the other parts？
Father：Very good！But I think a personal letter should end with
“Sincerely yours”，not“Truly yours”．
Mary：Oh，yes．Thank you very much for your help，Dad．
III．New Words and Phrases（生词和词组）
ugly ／
gli／adj．丑陋的；难看的
a moment ago刚才
dinosaur ／dain
s
:／n．恐龙
go over温习；仔细检查
roar ／r:／v．吼叫quarrel／kwrl／n．吵架；口角model／mdl／n．模型 electric model电动模型reason ／ri:zn／n．原因；理由
opinion／pinjn／n．意见；看法
sweet ／swi:t／adj．甜的
dream ／dri:m／n．梦
value ／v
lju:／vt．评价；尊重；重视
personal／p:snl／adj．私人
的；个人的lotus ／luts／n．荷花
sincerely ／sinsili／adv．真诚地；诚恳地
Sincerely yours（致友人等信末署名前的客套语）您的忠诚的
temple ／templ／n．庙；寺院
IV．Notes（注释）
①shall常用于主语为第一、三人称的问句中，表示提出建议或征求对方的意见，意为“……好吗？”或“要不要……？”又如：Shall we take some food with us for a picnic？我们带些食物去搞野餐好吗？Shall he come to see you？要不要他来看你？
②let常用于表示建议、请求、命令、警告或征求意见。又如：Let's hurry．咱们快点吧。Let me try．让我试试。Let them start at once．让他们立刻出发吧。请注意：Let's．．．．和Let us．．．．所表达的含义不同，前者意为“让我们一起……吧。”后者意为“（你）让我们……吧。”两者的附加疑问句也各不相同，试比较：Let's go home，shall we？我们（一起）回家吧，好吗？Let us go home，will you？请你让我们回家吧，好吗？
③You'd better（not）＋v．（原形）常用于口语中，表示建议，意为“你最好（或最好不要）做某事”。使用时应该注意以下几点：a．had better是习语，任何情况下都不可以说have ／has better或will／shall have better。b．had better后面一律用不带to的动词不定式（即动词原形）。例如：You'd better stay at home．你最好呆在家里。c．had better的否定式是had better not，不是hadn't better。例如：You'd better not go there alone．你最好别独自一人去那儿。d．had better的疑问式是“Had ＋主语＋better”。例如：Had you better go with her？你最好和她一起去吗？e．美国口语中常用better代替had better。例如：Better stay inside today．今天最好呆在家里。
④What ／How about．．．？常用于提出建议、询问消息或征求意见，意为“……怎么样？”或“……好吗？”用what还是how意思没有区别。此处about是介词，后接名词、代词或动名词（V．-ing）。又如：
How about his father？他父亲怎么样？What about this one？这个怎么样？How about going to France for our holidays？咱们到法国去度假好吗？
⑤Why not ＋v．（原形）常用来表示建议，相当于Why don't you＋v．（原形），意为“为什么不……呢？”又如：Why not go now？现在就去好不好？Why not？则用于对某一建议表示同意。例如：“Let's go to the cinema．”“Why not？”“咱们去看电影吧。”“好哇。”
⑥You need（to）．．．．表示某种需要或请求，常可用于提出建议。此处need是行为动词，意为“需要；必需”。又如：You need some help．你需要帮助。You need to take a bus there．你需要坐车去那儿。 need也可用作情态动词，没有人称和时态的变化，多用于疑问句和否定句，意为“需要；必须”。例如：“Need we buy a new machine？”“Yes，we must．”／“No，we needn't．”“我们需要购置一台新机器吗？”“是的，需要的。”／“不，不需要。”You needn't worry about it．你不必为此担心。
⑦接受对方的劝告或建议，可用：OK．／All right．／That's a good idea．／Good idea．／Certainly．／Sure．／Yes，please．／Yes，thanks．／ Thank you．／Thanks a lot．等。拒绝对方的劝告或建议，可说：I'm sorry，but．．．．／I'm afraid（that）I．．．．／No，thanks．／I'd love to，but．．．．／No，let's．．．．／I don't think so．／Well，I don't think we need to．等。
⑧You should．．．．表示某种义务与责任，也可表示规劝或劝告，意为“你应该……。”例如：You should study well．你应当好好学习。 You should stop smoking．你应该戒烟。
